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The AI Argument Referee

Every couple argues. Every co-parenting duo argues. The problem isn't the argument — it's fighting dirty. The Referee reviews the tape and calls it straight.

How it works

Record. Review. Replay — fair.

Record the argument

About to have a hard conversation? Turn the Referee on. Knowing the ref is watching keeps both sides playing fair — that alone changes half of it.

The ref reviews the tape

The AI reads the whole conversation and makes the call: fouls by name, good sportsmanship celebrated, and what each of you was really saying underneath.

Get the replay tips

Concrete sentences for running that play again — fair. And it remembers past sessions, so you can literally watch yourselves get better over time.

The rulebook

Fouls the ref calls by name

You can't stop a move you can't see. Naming it is half the defense — and yes, the ref calls fouls on both sides.

Gaslighting"That never happened. You're remembering it wrong." Reality has receipts.

Kitchen-sinkingOne argument about one thing becomes an argument about everything since 2019.

Score-keepingOld wrongs, paid out with interest in every new fight.

Victim-flippingYou raise an issue; somehow you end up apologizing. Classic DARVO.

Guilt as a weapon"After everything I've done for you" — feelings used to end the conversation, not have it.

FloodingPast a certain heat, nobody's communicating. The ref calls the time-out you didn't.

It also calls the good plays.

Validation. Staying on topic. A repair attempt after a hard moment. The ref celebrates every fair move — because it never gives up on your team, and it wants you to win together.

Good to know

Private. Parents-only. Yours.

Referee sessions are visible to parents only — never the kids. You choose what gets recorded, you can delete any session, and the reports live in your family and nowhere else. Currently in beta with our founding families.